I teach erotic wellness and sacred intimacy. I also hold a very firm boundary: coaches don’t play doctor. Coaching can transform your life. It is not a medical license. Bodies are complex. Medical advice belongs with licensed clinicians. I won’t tell you to discontinue your medication. I won’t claim breathwork replaces insulin, or deep-throating replaces thyroid care. I’ll support your pleasure, your boundaries, and your nervous system alongside your medical team.

Last night, I had a revelation that came wrapped in pain. Not emotional pain — physical. The kind that makes your whole body tense, your breath halt, and your soul whisper, “Enough.” I was with a man who, like so many, believed size equals satisfaction. But what I realized was something I’ve always known deep down: pleasure isn’t about how much a man has — it’s about how well he loves.