There is a shift happening in the collective field - a tectonic movement beneath the surface of relationships, sexuality, embodiment, and soul purpose. 2025 was the year of burning. We shed lovers, identities, illusions, patterns, false connections, pornified dynamics, trauma bonds, and pieces of ourselves that could not walk into the next era. 2026 is the Year of IGNITION. This is the year Kings and Queens rise. This is the year we step into Mastery stop performing love and begin embodying it.

We are living in a crisis so silent, so normalized, and so devastating that if it were happening to men, the entire country would be in Congress-level emergency mode. When women shut down, men lose access to erotic energy. When women numb out, men lose polarity. When women can’t trust, men cannot lead. When women dissociate, men lose connection. Everyone loses. I am here to end the illusion that any of us are separate. I am here to rebuild erotic intelligence.

And today, I reclaim what has always been mine: Sexual. Sovereignty. I declare that my body is not an experiment for men who do not know its language. My arousal is not a puzzle to be solved by those who have never lived inside its walls. My pleasure is not a reward, a performance, a negotiation, or a test.

I am the source. I am the origin of the erotic current.

Repeated abuse and Porn often create numbness in intimacy. The more numb we become, the more violent we need the scene to be just to register a spark. Men often miss-read signals from women - who often them selves don’t know how to relax and open to pleasure. It is possible - with practice - to rewire your nervous system to learn the art of feeling without fear.

Our minds hold an unconscious accumulation of things we have heard and internalized. These things affect our beliefs and actions. They can cause fear, panic, pain, and can even plunge us into depression, addiction and suicide. The good news is there is a way out. Learning to be present in our bodies can bring us into a state of peace and even bliss. This post details how to work towards live positive presence and Being - a profound part of Tantra that makes bliss states possible.

I don’t know anyone who gave us a real playbook on how to pleasure ourselves, let alone the opposite sex. Most of what happens in the bedroom is more like trial and error. But what if we are lacking really important information altogether? And your female partner knows very little about how women are deeply aroused and satisfied? Millions of men want to be better lovers. Here are a few things to remember so you can excel at being the kind of lover who is remembered for a lifetime.

What if the devil wasn’t red and horned—but wore prayer beads and spoke of presence? What if the deepest betrayal wasn’t by an enemy, but by the man who called you sacred, then shattered you with his shadow? This is for the women who gave their love like a temple offering… and were crucified for being the mirror. If you’ve ever been gaslit in the name of healing, and walked away wondering if he’ll ever see you … this is for you.

Men and women orgasm differently. We both feel pleasure, but the way women climax is very unique. The pathway to get us really high in our ecstasy is with rolling orgasms that last for hours. Yoni is the partner of Linga. Neither is better or worse. The most vivacious, life-changing orgasms start in the pathway of the heart. Let’s take a look at the details of how this works in women - and in men - because they are different.

I teach erotic wellness and sacred intimacy. I also hold a very firm boundary: coaches don’t play doctor. Coaching can transform your life. It is not a medical license. Bodies are complex. Medical advice belongs with licensed clinicians. I won’t tell you to discontinue your medication. I’ll support your pleasure, your boundaries, and your nervous system alongside your medical team.

Last night, I had a revelation that came wrapped in pain. Not emotional pain — physical. The kind that makes your whole body tense, your breath halt, and your soul whisper, “Enough.” I was with a man who, like so many, believed size equals satisfaction. But what I realized was something I’ve always known deep down: pleasure isn’t about how much a man has — it’s about how well he loves.